12 Nov

21:00

Frascati

Nes 63, , Amsterdam

What if consent isn't the end of desire, but the beginning of the game? Step into a playful, sex-positive FLINTA* world full of pleasure and connection.

Thu, 12 Nov 2026 21:00

Frascati, Amsterdam

Fri, 13 Nov 2026 21:00

Frascati, Amsterdam

OUT LOUD, TOGETHER

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What happens when intimacy isn't something you just watch, but something you shape together?

OUT LOUD, TOGETHER invites you into a playful, sex-positive world full of desire, boundaries, and care for each other. Inspired by practices from sex-positive FLINTA* spaces, four performers bring drag, humor, physical play, and intimate encounters to the theater, blurring the distance between stage and audience.

Before you enter, you choose a colored handkerchief that indicates how you want to participate. Maybe you want to watch. Maybe you're curious and want to get closer. Maybe you want to join in. Your choice can change at any moment. There is no right way to participate. Watching is participating. Saying no is participating. Changing your mind is too. Come as close as you like.

The performance draws from drag, burlesque, documentary material, kink practices, and nightlife. These forms are not used as decorative elements from subcultures, but as tools to ask theatrical questions about power, attention, vulnerability, physicality, and the social rules that determine who is allowed to desire what.

*FLINTA: A term for anyone who identifies as Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, or Agender.

About the Artists

About Ari Ochoa / Alfa Hoer

Ari Ochoa aka Alfa Hoer is a Latin American non-binary performance maker, drag artist, and cultural producer based in Amsterdam. Their practice moves between theater, nightlife, participatory performance, and community organizing. Using drag, humor, and audience interaction, they explore themes such as pleasure, gender, power, vulnerability, and collective behavior.

About iAra Banchik Almasia

iAra Banchik Almasia is a Latin American theater maker and scenographer who creates participatory experiences around intimate and often taboo subjects. Her practice combines performance, scenography, documentary approaches, and community engagement.

About Zahira Mous

Zahira Mous is a dance-theater maker, performer, community organizer, and group facilitator. Their work focuses on joy, (emotional) freedom, and social justice. Zahira is involved in the project from a performer's perspective, through her drag alter ego Patries. Zahira is the founder of Sappho Tantra, a sanctuary for sensuality and emotional intimacy for queer women.

About Bustie La Tish

Bustie La Tish is committed to intersectional feminism. In her energetic burlesque acts, Bustie creates engaging characters and takes you on a playful journey full of dance and comedy that leaves you inspired and entertained. Her burlesque is a political statement about the invisibilization of atypical bodies, the acceptance of female sexuality, and women's agency over their own bodies.