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Dutch prosecutors are demanding a 10-year prison sentence for a man accused of using Grindr to lure victims into violent robberies, including one horrific case in Amsterdam involving prolonged torture and mutilation.

Grindr Date Nightmare: Man Tortured, Mutilated in Amsterdam; Suspect Faces 10 Years

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10-Year Sentence Demanded in Violent Grindr Robbery Spree

AMSTERDAM – In a chilling case that highlights the dangers of dating app meetups, the Dutch Public Prosecution Service has demanded a 10-year prison sentence for Lucas M., the main suspect in a series of brutal robberies targeting men through the dating app Grindr. The attacks, which took place in Amsterdam and Haarlem, involved extreme violence, culminating in a horrifying incident where a victim was tortured and mutilated in his own home.

A Date That Turned into a Nightmare

The most severe attack occurred on the afternoon of August 10, 2024. A resident of Amsterdam-Noord had arranged what he believed was a blind date via Grindr. Instead of a date, he was met by two young, armed men who immediately turned violent. According to prosecutors, the encounter devolved into an hour of terror.

The victim was bound with duct tape, threatened with firearms, and systematically tortured when he stated he had no money. In a particularly gruesome act, one of the assailants, described as being in his early twenties, retrieved a cleaver from the kitchen and severed the tip of the victim's finger. The apartment was ransacked and left smeared with blood.

A Calculated Pattern of Attacks

The investigation quickly revealed this was not an isolated event. Police connected the Amsterdam attack to a similar case that occurred just five days earlier in Haarlem. In that incident, the same perpetrators allegedly used Grindr to arrange a meeting with another man, whom they also robbed in his home. This established a clear and disturbing pattern of using the popular dating app to specifically target and prey on men in our community.

Lucas M. is also facing charges for extensive drug trafficking and purchasing falsified driver's licenses for himself and his two Brazilian accomplices. These accomplices have since been arrested in Portugal for other violent crimes. Dutch authorities are working to have them extradited to the Netherlands to face trial, which is expected to happen in early 2026.

A Sobering Reminder: Staying Safe on Dating Apps

This case is a terrifying reminder that while dating apps are a vital tool for connection in the LGBTQ+ community, they can also be exploited by dangerous individuals. It is crucial for everyone to prioritize their safety. qMeet.nl encourages our readers to remain vigilant with these safety practices:

  • Meet in Public First: Always arrange the first meeting in a busy, public place like a coffee shop or bar. Avoid going to a private residence or inviting someone to yours until you feel comfortable and safe.
  • Inform a Friend: Let a trusted friend know who you are meeting, where you are going, and when you expect to be back. Share your location via your phone for extra security.
  • Verify Your Date: Before meeting, try to verify the person's identity. A brief video call can confirm they are who their profile says they are. A quick search for their social media can also provide more information.
  • Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, it probably is. Don't hesitate to cancel the date or leave immediately if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Your safety is more important than being polite.

As this case proceeds through the justice system, it serves as a stark warning about the potential dangers lurking online. We hope for justice for the victims and urge our community to look out for one another and practice caution when navigating the world of online dating.

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