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Kevin Carrera, the new Mr Gay Spain, used his victory speech to share a personal story of being rejected by his father after coming out, dedicating his platform to promoting family acceptance.

Mr Gay Spain's Emotional Message to Parents Who Reject Their Queer Kids

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During Madrid’s Pride celebrations, Kevin Carrera was crowned Mr Gay Spain 2024. But the 27-year-old model from Vigo used his moment in the spotlight not just to celebrate, but to deliver a quiet, poignant message about a pain familiar to many in the LGBTQ+ community: family rejection.

While on stage at the gala in Plaza de España, Carrera shared that his life changed profoundly a decade ago when he came out to his family.

“My father disappeared from my life the day I told him I was gay,” he told the judges and the audience. He has not spoken to his father since.

Instead of focusing on the crown, Carrera turned his personal story into a public appeal for empathy and support within families. “If my story manages to get even one father or one mother to embrace their child instead of rejecting them, it will already have been worth it,” he said.

A Platform with Purpose

Carrera, who works in retail and is training to be a flight attendant, has built a significant online following. While he often faces homophobic abuse in his comments, he continues to use his visibility to advocate for the community. After his win, he thanked his mother, whom he described as "the parent who stayed."

As the new titleholder, Carrera is championing a campaign called #OrgulloEnMiPueblo, which translates to "Pride in My Town." The initiative focuses on increasing LGBTQ+ visibility in smaller, more rural towns across Spain, where being out can still be a significant challenge compared to major cities like Madrid or Barcelona. This is a familiar issue across Europe, including in many parts of the Netherlands, where acceptance can vary greatly between urban centres and smaller communities.

In a video posted after his win, Carrera expressed his disbelief and his commitment to the role. "I still can't believe all of this," he wrote, promising to "represent our entire community in the best way I possibly can."

@kevincarreraa

Gane mister gay España 2026, todavía no me lo creo. Este video refleja todo lo que viví, super orgulloso de representar a mi país y ayudaros a luchar por nuestros derechos 🫶🏳️‍🌈

♬ Originalton – beuto.lomaeus

His victory highlights a continuing trend in LGBTQ+ pageantry, where contestants and winners increasingly use the platform to address substantive social and personal issues affecting the community, moving beyond simple celebration to active advocacy.

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