Men-only

Fetish Party Social

Spandex Party

Sunday, 18-10-2026, 15:00, Dirty Dicks Amsterdam, Amsterdam

An afternoon of skin-tight excitement for men who love the embrace of Lycra and Spandex. Show off your gear and connect with others who share the obsession.

Art Fetish Theater

ADE X Plein Theater: Sex & Death

Thursday, 22-10-2026, 17:00, Plein Theater, Amsterdam

An immersive diptych exploring pleasure and loss through two one-on-one experiences: a performance on desire and a VR simulation about your own death and afterlife.

FLINTA

Fetish Party Social

Bottoms up

Saturday, 24-10-2026, 15:00, Eagle Amsterdam, Amsterdam

A soft, care-centered space for cruising, consent & celebration. BOTTOMsUP is a kinky play party for FLINTA only.

Men-only

Fetish Party Social

Sensoria - Queer Men's Dance and Play Party

Saturday, 24-10-2026, 16:00, Conscious Place, Amsterdam

SENSORIA is a joyful, high-energy dance and play party for queer men who want connection that feels alive, unrushed, and real. A place to sweat, flirt, cruise, kiss, touch, play, and connect without substances.

Fetish Film

KitKatClub: Kinks of Berlin (2026)

Saturday, 24-10-2026, 21:00, Melkweg, Amsterdam

A documentary delving into the mysterious world of Berlin's iconic KitKatClub, following various individuals as they explore freedom, intimacy, identity, and sexuality.

Fetish Music Party

lockeRRoom

Saturday, 24-10-2026, 22:00, Club Church, Amsterdam

A niche party for queer fetish people eager to rave to a tougher style of techno, in the thrilling atmosphere and dark obscurity of Club Church.

Fetish Social

Queertied Peer Rope with Beginner Workshop

Friday, 30-10-2026, 19:00, Small gym hall, Rotterdam

A playful, welcoming rope hangout for the queer community and allies to explore shibari, connection, and silliness with safety and care. Includes an optional beginner's workshop.

Fetish Social

Shibari Classes at Lola Lieven

Friday, 30-10-2026, 19:00, Lola Lieven, Amsterdam

A series of Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) classes for all levels, especially beginners, with a focus on LGBTQI+ & marginalised people. Each class includes two hours of instruction and one hour of free practice.

Men-only

Fetish Social

Fetish Social Limburg

Saturday, 31-10-2026, 13:30, Café Rosé, Maastricht

The first Fetish Social Limburg in Maastricht: an afternoon for meeting up, catching up, and getting to know new people. Gear is welcome but not mandatory. Free admission, 18+.

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Dance Drag Fetish Party

Hoerenbal - Hookers Ball

Saturday, 31-10-2026, 22:00, Club Church, Amsterdam

Get down and dirty at this slutty, nasty party. Dress to distress, get naked, or come in full drag for free entrance. All genders and sexualities welcome.

Fetish Social

Andy Buru - ON POWER

Sat, Nov 14 to Sun, Nov 15 2026, Amsterdam, Amsterdam

A weekend workshop with rope artist Andy Buru exploring power dynamics through tantra, rituals, kink, and BDSM. Discover your dominant persona in a conscious and consensual space.

Men-only

Dance Fetish Party Social

Furball

Saturday, 21-11-2026, 22:00, Club Church, Amsterdam

The Amsterdam hairy men dance party for the butch & bears, with DJs Bramsterdam & Big General plus guests.

Fetish Social

Leather Social Utrecht

Saturday, 28-11-2026, 14:00, Body Talk (Wharf Basement), Utrecht

A social leather event in Utrecht for the LGBTIQ+ community. Come have a drink, meet fellow leather lovers, and make new friends.

Men-only

Dance Fetish Party Social

Ladz

Saturday, 28-11-2026, 22:00, Club Church, Amsterdam

A men-only gay dance and cruise party with a strict sportswear and sneakers dress code for lads, scallies, gabbers, and sportswear boys.

Art Fetish Music Party

Pornceptual

Friday, 11-12-2026, 22:00, Parallel, Amsterdam

Pornceptual is an art movement presenting pornographic art as queer, diverse, and inclusive through club nights, digital media, exhibitions, and screenings.

Dance Fetish Party

LESBIQUE

Saturday, 12-12-2026, 22:00, Club Church, Amsterdam

A community-based queer party in Amsterdam, creating a platform to party, meet-up, and enjoy the work of queer and underground artists.