OUT LOUD, TOGETHER
Thursday, 12-11-2026, 21:00, Frascati, AmsterdamWhat if consent isn't the end of desire, but the beginning of the game? Step into a playful, sex-positive FLINTA* world full of pleasure and connection.
Queer Calendar
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Elmer
Friday, 13-11-2026, 20:15, TivoliVredenburg, UtrechtAmsterdam rapper Elmer, known for viral hits like 'Je Vader' and 'Prinses Pil', presents a new show and album with a theme focused on men.
Waiting for Marsha
Friday, 13-11-2026, 20:30, Stadsschouwburg Utrecht, UtrechtNew York, 1969. In a bar full of music, color, and tension, the frustration of the queer community culminates in the Stonewall riots, the starting point of the international fight for equal rights and visibility.
SPIELRAUM Weekender
Friday, 13-11-2026, 23:00, Club Raum, AmsterdamA two-day techno weekender at Club Raum featuring an extensive lineup of DJs across Friday and Saturday.
Andy Buru - ON POWER
Sat, Nov 14 to Sun, Nov 15 2026, Amsterdam, AmsterdamA weekend workshop with rope artist Andy Buru exploring power dynamics through tantra, rituals, kink, and BDSM. Discover your dominant persona in a conscious and consensual space.
Men-only
Stiletto Club - The Gay Edition
Saturday, 14-11-2026, 20:00, DHG Tilburg, TilburgA fetish party for men, featuring multiple dance areas, playrooms, and a strict dress code. Celebrate love in a safe environment.
Blahaj Blast
Saturday, 14-11-2026, 20:00, COC Haaglanden, The HagueA monthly social event for transgender, non-binary, and gender-diverse individuals to meet in a safe and supportive environment. Allies are also welcome.
Gay80s90s
Saturday, 14-11-2026, 23:30, Paradiso, AmsterdamDance to the very best hits from the ’80s and ’90s with a pink twist. The decades of iconic gay artists and one-hit wonders.
PANN Party Utrecht
Saturday, 14-11-2026, 23:30, TivoliVredenburg, UtrechtPANN organizes the largest and most famous LGBTQ+ parties in the Netherlands. Join the community for a night of dancing to the best pop and dance hits in a safe and welcoming atmosphere.
Haarlem: Walk with COC
Sunday, 15-11-2026, Haarlem, HaarlemJoin a friendly group walk on the third Sunday of every month. A great way to socialize and enjoy the outdoors with the community.
Pink in Kadoelen
Sunday, 15-11-2026, 13:00, Buurtkamer Kadoelen, AmsterdamA monthly pink networking meeting at Buurtkamer Kadoelen in Amsterdam North. A place to meet each other, with friends and family also welcome.
Flower Face
Monday, 16-11-2026, 19:30, Melkweg (UP), AmsterdamFlower Face is the project of singer-songwriter and visual artist Ruby McKinnon. Her music moves between gothic folk, dreampop, and cinematic indie rock.
Queer Book Club: Confessions of a Mask
Monday, 16-11-2026, 19:30, Centrale Bibliotheek, DOK B, The HagueJoin the Queer Book Club to discuss Yukio Mishima's classic novel, 'Confessions of a Mask', in a thoughtful and welcoming space for LGBTQIA+ literature enthusiasts.
Queer Book Club: Detransition, Baby
Monday, 16-11-2026, 19:30, Centrale Bibliotheek, DOK B, The HagueJoin the Queer Book Club to discuss Torrey Peters' novel 'Detransition, Baby', a witty story about gender, motherhood, and chosen family.
NEW SHIT
Tuesday, 17-11-2026, 19:30, KLUP, AmsterdamA new monthly open mic for queer and trans writers to share their newest 5-minute reads. Bring your work to share or just come to listen.
Evita
Tuesday, 17-11-2026, 20:00, Koninklijk Theater Carré, AmsterdamCelebrate the 50th anniversary of the world-famous musical Evita! Experience this masterpiece as a musical concert, sung in English by top soloists and accompanied by a large orchestra and choir.
Bloc Party + Interpol
Tuesday, 17-11-2026, 20:00, AFAS Live, AmsterdamPost-punk bands Bloc Party and Interpol come to AFAS Live for their co-headline tour, celebrating the 20th anniversary of their classic albums 'Silent Alarm' and 'Antics'.
Bleachers
Tuesday, 17-11-2026, 20:30, Paradiso, AmsterdamBleachers, led by Grammy winner Jack Antonoff, is known for their absolute synth-pop-rock anthems and saxophone-driven sound that originated in the streets of New Jersey.
AutiRoze
Wednesday, 18-11-2026, 19:00, Het Badhuis, HaarlemA quiet and cozy meetup for LGBTQ+ adults with autism, ADHD, or other neurodiversity to connect, share experiences, and enjoy a drink.
Zinadelphia
Wednesday, 18-11-2026, 19:30, Paradiso, AmsterdamPhiladelphia-based singer-songwriter Zinadelphia blends soul, Motown, disco, and cinematic pop into warm, richly layered songs inspired by the sounds of the ’60s and ’70s.
Queer Notes
Wednesday, 18-11-2026, 20:00, TivoliVredenburg, UtrechtViolinist Pieter van Loenen presents a classical concert exploring the works and stories of queer composers like Tchaikovsky, Bernstein, Smyth, and Poulenc.
Orpheus
Wednesday, 18-11-2026, 20:00, COC Haaglanden, The HagueA discussion evening for people struggling with homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual feelings within their heterosexual relationship, offering a listening ear and shared experiences.
Out in Tech Amsterdam
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 18:00, Saarein, AmsterdamJoin our monthly after work drinks event, a relaxed social gathering hosted at Cafe Saarein for LGBTQ+ people and allies in the tech industry.
A Pelo
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 19:00, Korzo Studio, Den HaagThis raw duet full of dance, mime, and performance art explores the many forms of queer desire and masculine intimacy.
Rainbow Café Uithoorn
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 20:00, Café the River, UithoornCome by for an evening full of meeting people, coziness, and a nice atmosphere.
Sips & Sorcery
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 20:00, Lellebel, AmsterdamAn extraordinary evening of world-class magic, mind-bending illusion, and hilarity featuring an international lineup of renowned performers.
Filmscreening: De-domestication & i am not (your) human
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 20:00, Pakhuis de Zwijger, AmsterdamDecolonising bodies, land and identity: 2 short films, a live talk and a drag cow finale.
Rainbow Café
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 20:00, STADSKANT, GoudaA cozy get-together for LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies for conversation, games, drinks, connection, and friendship in a safe and respectful environment.
Brave Space: a new evening of queer storytelling
Thursday, 19-11-2026, 20:30, Theater Bellevue, AmsterdamBrave Space is a queer storytelling night at the Speakeasy @ Theatre Bellevue, a gathering place for voices that are raw, tender, funny, and true.
Queer Generations: Transgender Day of Remembrance
Friday, 20-11-2026, 18:30, Centrale Bibliotheek, The HagueA panel discussion on International Transgender Day of Remembrance, exploring its meaning, the community's progress, and future needs.
MUNA
Friday, 20-11-2026, 19:00, Melkweg, AmsterdamIndie pop trio MUNA returns to Amsterdam for their 'Gets So Hot Tour', performing songs from their bold and emotional new dance-pop album.
Beyond The Ball by Aqueerius
Friday, 20-11-2026, 20:30, Theater Bellevue, AmsterdamExperience the pink revolution of the French Baroque in 'Beyond The Ball,' a new baroque-wave musical about the queer icon, opera diva, and master duelist, Julie d’Aubigny.
Women-only
35+ Party at Bar Buka
Friday, 20-11-2026, 21:00, Bar Buka, AmsterdamJoin the 35+ party at Bar Buka with resident DJ Han. A special night for the 35 and over crowd on selected Fridays.
Queer aan Zee Meetup
Saturday, 21-11-2026, 16:00, Café De Prael, The HagueWant to meet new queer people or catch up with old friends? Join the Queer aan Zee Meetup for a cozy social gathering in The Hague.
Vlamousse - The Good Example
Saturday, 21-11-2026, 20:15, Theater De Richel, AmsterdamThis original duo takes the stage as new mothers to mercilessly and hilariously tackle the realities of parenthood, challenging the picture-perfect lies we've been told.
Women-only
Janey - Amsterdam (25+ Edition)
Saturday, 21-11-2026, 22:00, Bitterzoet, AmsterdamJaney is a dance party and a home base for queer women in the Netherlands. Dance to pop, urban, and house in a loving, no-attitude atmosphere for ages 25 and up.
RAUM invites PAX-ROMANA
Saturday, 21-11-2026, 23:00, Club Raum, AmsterdamClub Raum hosts PAX-ROMANA for a night of electronic music featuring a lineup of international DJs including Budino, D-Leria, Massimilano Pagliara, and more.
Literature as a Testing Ground for the Future
Sunday, 22-11-2026, 15:00, Buurthuis De Coenen, AmsterdamJoin a literary salon with author Anja Sicking to discuss her novel 'The Visionary' and explore the ethical dilemmas of artificial intelligence and our growing dependence on technology.
Liturgy (solo)
Tuesday, 24-11-2026, 20:30, Cinetol, AmsterdamLiturgy is the project of Haela Ravenna Hunt-Hendrix, whose yearning, energetic 'transcendental black metal' moves between metal, art music, and sacred ritual.
Matthew Bourne's The Car Man
Wednesday, 25-11-2026, 20:00, Royal Theatre Carré, AmsterdamMatthew Bourne's award-winning dance thriller, loosely based on Bizet's opera, reimagines the story in a greasy 1950's American garage-diner shattered by the arrival of a handsome stranger.
Talking with Queer Asylum Seekers
Thursday, 26-11-2026, 20:00, De Kargadoor, UtrechtAn evening of conversation with queer asylum seekers, focusing on courage, fear, and new beginnings. Meet the people behind the political debates.
Boy Harsher + Choir Boy
Thursday, 26-11-2026, 20:30, Paradiso, AmsterdamThe duo blends EBM, darkwave, post-punk and industrial into a dark, emotionally charged sound driven by pulsating beats and haunting vocals, with support from Choir Boy.
12FU w/ JOE & THE SHITBOYS (FO) + APÉRO (DE/FR) + DJ STEVE + TBA
Thursday, 26-11-2026, 20:30, OCCII, AmsterdamA night of punk rock featuring the queer vegan shitpunks Joe & The Shitboys from the Faroe Islands and the outernational egg punk trio APÉRO.
Queer Open Mic Night | 4th Edition
Friday, 27-11-2026, 19:30, Queer Hub Nieuw-West, AmsterdamAn open mic night for the queer community and allies. Take the stage or enjoy performances of music, poetry, spoken word, storytelling, and stand-up comedy.
F*cking Future
Friday, 27-11-2026, 20:00, Theater Rotterdam, RotterdamPortuguese choreographer Marco da Silva Ferreira explores new ways of coming together, building community, and resisting the forces that shape our future in this powerful dance performance.
P4rTy GWoRLz N3v4h Di3
Friday, 27-11-2026, 20:00, Frascati, AmsterdamAn ode to 'brave spaces', radical friendship, spectacular failure, transformation, and bodily fluids.
RAUM invites Hamam Nights
Friday, 27-11-2026, 23:00, Club Raum, AmsterdamRAUM invites the queer-focused party series Hamam Nights for a night of electronic music with DJs DIrcceu, Hyperaktivist, Josh Caffé, and Sedef Adasï.
BOPS
Friday, 27-11-2026, 23:00, The Other Side, AmsterdamA radiant celebration of queer spirit and musical delight, playing pop bangers from artists like Ariana, Beyoncé, Lady Gaga, and more. Come as you are or have always dreamed of being.